When I wore this top to church, I must have offended an older lady in the choir. After rehearsal she pulled me aside and said I needed to pull the back of my top up. I was defensive at first because it was the end of rehearsal and I was going to leave anyway. Fashion can be offensive, but it’s ultimately an expression of self and there are potentially 7 billion who could be offended by the choices you make.
I personally didn’t feel that this top was inappropriate so I told her that rehearsal was over and that I was going to leave right after the announcements. I defended myself and politely (and firmly) told her that I was not going to pull my top up. Well, I didn’t say those exact words because I didn’t want to make unnecessary enemies, but I think it’s important to know when to stand your ground. Have you ever been in a situation where you needed to defend your choices/actions?